Wednesday, February 24, 2010

Remember that the truest love, is one where your love for each other is greater than your need for each other.


Nothing beats the "smile-and-sweet-hug" combo after a long argument.

For couples who have been in a relationship for almost one year or more, arguments can be just a part of growing-up stage of the relationship. Arguments do not break you apart but instead makes you stronger. Luckily, for our case, (will be spending our 2nd anniv this march) arguments add up spice in our relationship. We become closer and sweeter every after argument. For me, the hugs he give me after the argument are outstanding. I can feel the sincerity and the love :) Cheesy much? But so true! :)

Kisses are sweet but hugs are more sincere. It brings your heart closer to your partner's heart and the tightness of the hug could speak for the sincerity he's trying to show. I can feel him. I can feel the love. :)

And what's even more relieving? Say after the argument, you and your partner had a conversation about the things that transpired, the realizations and stuff... you tend to lower down your pride and justify your side without bias. It is where you admit your mistakes and suggest things that can make your relationship better. You and your partner could just laugh your asses out every after justification, yes. The openness surely helps. It's like a 'no judgment' discussion. It removes the pain you felt and makes you feel better.

For me, that feeling is rewarding. The feeling of asking forgiveness and the feeling of being forgiven. :) I couldn't ask for more... I am more than happy :)

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